What people need to remember, too, is that facial feminization surgery is expensive. Not every trans person has the money to spend on it.
Some in the cisgender community remind me of my ex-girlfriend, who told me that her sister had laser vision correction and would tell me that I looked like a grandfather with my glasses. Okay, her sister might not have wanted to wear glasses (I consider laser vision correction vanity, but if it floats your boat) but I like wearing them and shouldn't be stigmatised.
How a transgender person chooses to express their gender is their business. I know, I have started buying some pink things, but I also say, if a transwoman wants to wear men's underpants and women's jeans, that's their business.