We should never forget that many homophobic men are actually engaged in self-loathing. I remember the case of a charismatic Pentecostal pastor, who wore Hawaiian shirts, who was married to a woman and had kids, who, 20 years later, embraced his homosexuality. At a more extreme level, the Orlando Attack of 2017.

A number of Asian gay men have reported racism within the gay community. Conversely, I know a few gay white men who have Asian husbands or partners. The gay community is as diverse as any other.