We don't want to go back to the bad old days where a man was expected to marry a woman if he got her pregnant. Okay, if a couple were engaged and they maybe, in a conservative sense, put the cart before the horse, so to speak, and the woman was pregnant on her wedding day, that's one thing, but if a guy and a girl in their 18th year had sex and the girl's parents insisted that they get married, as was the case in previous generations, it can be that when the kids have left home, an already shaky marriage disintegrates.