There is ridiculous doctor who wrote an article about women wanting respect and mentioned childrearing, but he said absolutely NOTHING about women wanting to be respected for choosing a career over motherhood. He made a bit of a deal about Australia's first female Prime Minister being hated for being a woman but said precious little about women wanting a career in politics.
A woman should not have to be a trad wife. And let's not forget that it's not always abuse but say a trad wife attends a school reunion and finds that a friend of hers has died, and she remembered that she wanted to pursue a career, and her husband was not supportive, so they divorced.