I have found three cold places in Malaysia. The summit of Mt. Kinabalu, the Genting Highlands at night and movie theatres.

My sister-in-law has ruined Christmas for me and I'm not happy about it at all. All I wanted for Christmas was to buy some chicken, some potatoes, a gluten and lactose free low FODMAP Christmas sweet and be able to eat it or make myself some strawberry jelly and top it with lactose free custard. But she is that selfish that she required me to surrender most of the space in my fridge for food that I can't eat (I don't eat ham because I have found sometimes after eating it, it upsets my stomach, and not because it's been left out in the heat, but because of the preservatives). One thing that goes against me is, okay, I don't have a partner, but if I did, I would probably say, "We'll have lunch with one set of parents and dinner with the other set," but my brother's mother-in-law (his father-in-law died before he met my sister-in-law) lives close by and comes over, and my brother wants to arrive early in the morning, and put the food in the fridge for several hours. If I was in my father's shoes, I would say, "No, come over just before lunch and bring the food. And the kids and you can open your presents after lunch."