I am hoping that once I start to transition medically, that I will be referred to as "Ma'am," or better still, if I'm with another trans-femme, that we get called "Girls". We might say to the waiter or service person, "We'll take that, if you mean we look young."

I know I can't do much about my thinning hair and I'm not particularly hirsuite, and I don't have a full beard, so hopefully, it will be easier to transition.